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Chapter 11: The Answers to Your Biggest Questions About University

I know I usually start off every entry with something similar to “oh dear, where did the time go.” Well, this one is no different. I have just over 40 days left in Ottawa until I go back home to Cow Town (aka Calgary) for the summer.

I have NO idea where the time went. It’s crazy to think that this time last year I was thinking about accepting my residence offer, starting to look at what classes I was going to take and starting my countdown to September. I sure had a lot of questions about what my first year of university had in store. After having been in Ottawa for the better part of a year, I figure I’ve answered most of those questions myself.

So, I decided to devote this entry to those very questions, in case any of you guys have the same ones. I also polled a few people on Facebook to see what they wanted to know or what they wished they’d known before going to university. Here’s what I came up with:

Q: Why do universities make their websites so hard to understand?
A: Good question. I was fortunate that Carleton’s website is fairly straightforward, but some of the others I looked at were positively terrifying. Perhaps it’s a way of weaseling out the faint-of-heart before they even apply to the school. That, or they need to give their web designer a raise.

Q: Is university as terrifying as everybody says?
A: When I was in the fifth grade, my teacher was a little bit terrifying. She had crazy hair a la Mrs. Frizzle, and the personality to match. We would be doing an assignment – something like a book report that at the time seemed like a huge project – and she’d go on and on about how she was preparing us for university. In grade five. The message my teachers passed on to me didn’t really change in the next seven years of school: “You think you’re working hard now? Wait for university.” Personally, I didn’t find anything to be overwhelmingly difficult to adjust to (apart from the whole being-halfway-across-the-country thing).

Q: How much harder is university than high school?
A: That’s up to you. School gets harder year after year, but we also – hopefully – get smarter every year, too. Most of my high school teachers went out of their way to terrify us about the amount of work that universities like to dole out. The workload is considerably hefty, but it's manageable if you are motivated enough to stay on top of it.

For me, personally, I didn’t find the work to be necessarily more difficult than it was in high school - there was just more of it. The most important piece of advice I can give you is one you’ve likely heard before: manage your time. Trying to write a term paper at three in the morning the day that it’s due is not how you want to go about things. I’ve slipped up a few times and left things to the last minute and regretted it. Case in point: I finished my History term paper at about 1:30 a.m. today. I could have had it finished a month ago. Do the work ahead of time when you can, and save the early morning hours for sleeping, not citing sources.

Q: How do you maintain your marks and your social life?
A: You don’t.

(I’m kidding.) It’s hard, but again, it comes down to time management. The other thing that’s important to keep in mind is the fact that you’re going through the same thing as everybody else. You may be feeling bitter at the fact that you’re spending your Friday night in the library, but there’s usually going to be a few hundred other people there with you. I often go to the library with my classmates or floormates, and while we’re usually working on different things, its nice to be able to be together and trade the odd word while still getting our work done. It’s really important to find that balance, because university has so much more to offer than simply schoolwork.

If you have any other burning questions, leave me a comment, and I’ll do my best to answer them as soon as possible. If you’re in the process of navigating through applications, residence forms and all that good stuff, good luck!
 

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I will be 40 and living with my mother

Leaving home for university sounds like the scariest thing I could ever do with my life. I always thought about growing up as learning to drive and traveling and road trips with friends and such, but when I think about growing up now, it's like bills and scholarships and finding a third job and "how am I going to pay for gas this month?" I've heard that taking a year off after high school isn't a bad idea from some people, but others tell me the longer you wait, the harder it is to get into a good school. At this point, I'm not even sure if I'm going to post secondary (I don't actually need to for my career), and if I do, I won't be going for a program, but just a class or two, and that won't be for a while. I hate having to put it off but the more I grow up the harder it is to keep up with everything (and I'm not talking social life, nooo, that's long gone!), like sports, work, school, etc. On top of all that, I still really need to learn how to cook so when I do move out, I won't starve to death after the first few weeks.

What was it like moving that

What was it like moving that far away? You were practically moving from one side of the continent to the other! I find it so difficult to fully realize that when year 2011-2012 starts up, I will be gone. GONE! I won't have a single friend with me and I am going into another country that is both so like and unlike Canada: the US. Did the fact that you were leaving fully sink in closer to your departure date or was it just real to you from the beginning? Guess I'm rambling now, but this concept of leaving is still so abstract... Thanks!

Hey! To be honest with you,

Hey!

To be honest with you, the concept of moving away from home is STILL abstract for me! Sometimes I think about the fact that I'm about 3000 km away from home and it freaks me out, even now.

But as I've said in my previous entries, it was the best decision I ever made.

It wasn't until I'd moved into my dorm room and my dad had gotten on a plane to fly back to Calgary that it really sunk in. I couldn't picture myself at university, away from home, until I was actually THERE.

I guess in a way it sunk in that I was leaving when I saw my friends for the "last" time, and then saying goodbye at the airport was a little rough, but I adjusted pretty easily.

Don't overthink it! If you treat it as an adventure you'll be fine.

As for the friends thing, I met my best friend here about three and a half hours after I got here. By the end of the first week, I guarantee you you'll have a ton of new friends.

With Skype and Facebook and stuff, it's so easy to stay in contact with your family and friends at home and it makes the transition a lot easier.

Hope this helps!

University Websites

Yes, university websites are terrifying, more confusing than corn mazes. Applications are definitely an arduous process, compounded by the fact that there are so many bloody universities to apply to, and that the deadlines and procedures are all different. Start those scholarship applications early!

Sounds like a great

Sounds like a great adventure. I have one more year until I head off to university but I still ask all those questions all the time. How did you choose what you wanted to study? That's something I'm having trouble with.

Making the decision

Hey Naomi,

I was lucky to know pretty early what I wanted to take in university. In the first year or two of high school, I had considered everything from industrial design to vet school to journalism, and bounced back and forth between a bunch of different options.

I'd been involved with my high school's journalism program since grade 10, so that crossed my mind as something I might be into. I went to an out-of-town university fair hosted at a Calgary high school and looked into the journalism programs at a number of universities. I still wasn't 100% sure whether I wanted to study journalism but after learning about the different programs and career opportunities that would arise out of it, I was sold and haven't looked back since.

My best advice for you is probably something you've heard before - do what you love. Try to imagine yourself in a number of careers and see which one you feel suits your strengths and your interests.

Look at a TON of programs, universities, and other post-secondary courses. Take special care to look at the program requirements, the courses you'll be taking, and apply to a wide range of options if you're not sure.

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